I used to think women who were loners were lonely women.
No.
women who must be around friends and family and constant distractions are the loneliest of all and that's why they have people around them constantly. And that's also why they have children. They must be around somebody to occupy them and entertain them
Women who are loners are never lonely because they they're smart enough to keep themselves occupied without sucking the life out of other people.
And they are self starters and that's something that they are trained to do.. not all women can take to the training of being a self motivator but some women have what it takes to be on their own and prefer to be on their own and also still be married so as long as he respects her autonomy and he doesn't force her into groupthink.
Men are naturally social creatures and they want their women to be social creatures unless that woman says no the women are f****** vicious I'm staying home and staying safe.
I can't be an individual in a group mentality and some men are mature enough to handle that.
And the cool thing about being a woman in my world as far as the J World is you can take care of yourself immunologically
And you won't have to depend upon someone to wipe your ass
The most agonizing thing for a independent woman is dependending upon someone else to wipe her ass when she gets to be 70 80 and 90... she basically lost her dignity and that is the most agonizing of all
When you have spent years and years on your own and then you need someone to help you get around that's a suffering like no other.
I don't sell my book anymore because I am the book I want people to read or appreciate and if you don't read me or appreciate me there's nothing to talk about and we have nothing in common.
That's why I have a Facebook so that way you can read or dismiss at your own leisure
And since I'm ever evolving the book is always changing there's no reason for me to sell a book because it would have been something of the past that would not be a current representation so there's no more books in my world. It's just me.
Just FYI I don't talk to anyone on the phone with their private message or calling people. I'm just not doing that. It's not that I'm being unsocial I just don't have anything to catch up on
I have my Facebook. There's nothing to go back and forth with with anybody. I know it's weird but this is the time when we take our own personal inventory and we talk to ourselves without relying on somebody to talk to unless you're married in a social contract.
I don't speak to a lot of people because I don't really have much in common with them so the only thing that we have in common is the JJ world or the past but the past is pretty much over so there's nothing to talk about there or people talk about what they think the future holds. But if you believe you should die someday then what does the future hold for you? Oh you wrote another book about something
what if I'm not interested in what you wrote. What if I don't care about your accomplishments just like people don't care about my accomplishments or what they think are my accomplishments.
What if we don't have to care about each other's accomplishments. What if we just accomplish for the sake of accomplishing things that we believe in for ourselves and not for others?
What if we invested in ourselves and wrote for ourselves and put it out there but then realize this was a personal accomplishment for personal self growth and that's it. The book I wrote would be for someone who plans to die someday because that would be my legacy.
What if you are the book that you want people to read and appreciate
Or people talk about what they're doing right now or and that's great
I know people like to talk about what they're doing right now but I'm not doing anything except post what I post. So you would be just telling me what you're doing everyday and my thought process will not be recognized to a lot of people.
And I don't want to put you through that b*******.
You want to know how I'm doing, look at my Facebook you can catch up that way.
If I want to know how you're doing I'll look at your Facebook and I'll catch up with small doses but not the back and forth. The world has gone very differently now
People try to get me to commit on Facebook to talk through whatever and when I don't commit then they try to take it offline and if I don't actively commit something I'm not committing to speaking engagement personal or otherwise.
The world speaks for itself. I can't speak for the world back and forth one on one and I don't coach anyone.
I'm friendly but I don't really have any friends. I have acquaintances and I have neighbors and I have friends on Facebook and I have a husband
and I have casual observers that try to cross borders but I have a long fence line and border guards now.
thanks to the Trump Administration
everybody has a nice neat little place.
There are people on Facebook that I might have talked to through private messenger because they're going through the same thing around the J World actively involved even if they just "like" my information or keeping up with the information or I react to their controversial posts and they know it and so we find a way to have a happy medium because there's a lot going on right now.
It's not like we're best friend but we have a shared interest and it's public and so it's not like I'm picking their brain or they're picking my brain
we're on the same wavelength.
That's kind of what I want right now is just to kind of chill out with no active appointments engagements or feeling I have to answer to somebody except for my husband and the government.
I keep conversations on Facebook open for people to participate in but if you don't participate that's your choice but we don't really have anything in common if my public Facebook posts aren't even something of Interest.
That's always the barometer of a shared interest if my Facebook posts and your Facebook post are something of a shared interest and maybe your post make me laugh and my post make you think and laugh and if I don't make you think or laugh we have nothing to talk about.
otherwise it's the cryptic happy birthday just to acknowledge it's your birthday because it's nice and it's human but it's not deeper than that.
I'm sorry but it's not
Wow that's really cold Jillian because what if they wanted to be friends with you and chat about stuff?
I'm not really out there with the world right now chatting about Superfluous stuff.
I'm not actively engaged in any kind of business and I'm not flying to Timbuktu to go hiking with a tour guide.
I don't even hang out in groups of people.
I keep pretty silent except for in the morning when I'm releasing demons and knowledge and sometimes demons of knowledge and angels of knowledge.
It's like a very peaceful sabbatical. No major interruptions. My husband and I have a quiet life over here and it is awesome and it works. When he needs to be around more energy he goes hangs out with his buddies so he can get some male energy and I get it.
As soon as I gain people that I have to talk to then there goes the peace..
Right now I don't need friends, I "need" acquaintances with a few acknowledgments of "like" happy birthday, I so understand where you're coming from, me too, your hair looks nice, great video.
That's pretty much the extent of my energy exchange with people because it's too easy to get mired and caught in between the unequal exchange of energy.
I give away my energy to the world every morning and then I crawl into my hole and I recover and I regain more substance to give more energy to the world.
And I give my energy to my husband as he gives his energy to me and that's our survival. And we negotiate how much energy we give to each other so we don't destroy each other through needs and wants. And that takes at least 10 years to develop because the honeymoon period could last a long time and then the expectations are astronomical and then people change
And now more than ever all of us have to protect our energy from everything.
And so now I'm exemplifying what I believe in which is keeping the world outside and only invite the world in very small doses and I mean small doses.
Wow what a lonely existence jillian that's really sad of you. I feel sorry for you Jillian because you're a lonely person and you're a mean and hateful person.
I'm not mean or hateful I'm just pretty much honest and I don't have to pay for a filter. I'm unfiltered truth and I keep it on my Facebook.
Someone would say well that's just sad you are sad state of existence of a human.
Is it really that sad?
Or is this the future?
This is what I've evolved into and I love it.
If I have to change because of survival I will but at this point I'm not changing the way I do things.
I like seeing people's posts and sometimes people will interact with me and if they don't I don't force anyone and at this point I don't care.
So if we don't have any interaction except for once a year happy birthday that's not enough to catch up on. It's not an opening. I try to do the nice social things but sometimes it bites me in the ass because what door did I just open I don't really feel like walking through.
I like taking naps and waking up to silence. And I like studying I like writing and I like processing the world through my beliefs and looking up facts.
I like learning history and philosophy and I like watching what people do and understanding what they say and occasionally I'll interact with my neighbors and I'll talk to my husband and that's a great life.
And I hold on to my resources. I only give away what I can afford..
And to me that is a palatable world.
In my opinion this is the time to be with the people who you have in common with the most and make it meaningful to you and finish out your obligations and contracts
and if you want to change you don't need to talk to people to change.
You just do it. You change your life
You watch what people do and you figure out what you can do. And then you be accountable for your choices
I have never heard of the term "independent men" because men will always rely on a girlfriend or wife or his buddies or strange poontang..
I read that somewhere on Facebook I just don't remember who it was.. if you are a friend of my Facebook and you said this I probably saw it and thank you for it
We are in an amazing time. This is what the left wanted the right to see. The right is giving the left a gift in the government. We are in some amazing times right now.
Your government is giving you a gift people in the left-wing world as well as the right wing world. See this as a gift. What's going on is a major gift to both men and women.
F****** phenomenal
And I feel extremely honored to live during this time and be part of Generation X. Oh my gosh
Please read the comments because when you have to go to someone's Facebook and comment defending your choices and I think there's some truth to my information. You don't need to defend your choices to anyone else if you truly believe what you believe. You would stay in your world and you wouldn't cross over.
I don't need to go to people's Facebook and argue my point of view and defend myself to people who aren't even attacking me. I pretty much mind my own business and say what I say and I keep things general
And mostly non-specific
I'm sorry if you exemplify my examples but you are one of many clones out there who have the same beliefs and lifestyles and you're not even a friend on my Facebook you're just a casual observer.. stay in your lane. Observe
If you can't handle another point of view then you have proved my point
that's the problem we breed children who turn into adults who are intolerant to other people's information and here is the proof.
When you get married at 20 you don't know what the hell you're doing and money is not a barometer of intelligence. And having children at 20 30 40 50 is also not a barometer of intelligence. You just diluted your potential and you diluted your children's potential
And so I think people should get married when they're 50
when they have enough life experience and they've made the mistakes and corrected them and I don't think people should have kids unless they have a lot of money. They can't be middle class they have to be upper upper middle class because when you have money you can afford to get your kids help and you can afford to educate them and you can afford to feed them and you can afford to make them a good human being because you're not distracted by a Pleasure and Paradise or working 80 hours a week
Getting married at 18 19 and 30 abd 40 is just going to put those kids at a disadvantage.
There's no way a 20 30 40 even a 50 year old could offer insight on how to be a good human when you haven't learned all the lessons yet.. because when you don't learn your lessons you will just repeat the same mistakes your parents did. And that's why the system is self imploding
And money doesn't necessarily mean that you made smart choices it means you can afford to make poor choices and everything is relative
Money is not a barometer of intelligence. That's for damn sure
How do I know the PACK mentality is deadly and dangerous to anyone different or strong
I f****** lived it
The family is deadly because the pack mentality is deadly and Charles Manson was the representation of how deadly the Manson family was and what these families out there represent.
And he represented a male cult leader who destroyed his own family and other people.. he brainwashed his disciples into destroying others and that's what family does with their children.
They brainwash their children to destroy themselves and other people.. now watch your kids operate around people who are different and weaker and watch the men and women destroy each other through politics religion science drugs alcohol and aggressive pregnancies
Groups of women together are only good in the military or temporary organizations developing scientific experiments but when they're out there they destroy families and friends and each other
Extremely smart women and intellectually smart women operate alone. You cannot be innovative and preserving oneself when you're distracted by pleasures of the flesh as well as group mentality.
That's pretty hard line. Go see for yourself..
pack mentality is a dead mentality and people fall for drugs alcohol and aggressive sexual proclivities because that's what the group offers is basically mixing of microbes and flesh all in the name of hormone manipulation and sometimes disease and children come out of that..
The wolf pack mentality implies you are searching to destroy a person place or thing.
Pack mentality is biologically and sociologically predatory and many families pride themselves to be destroyers of others.
That's why the system is breaking up the family.. because family is not only a destroyer of others but they destroy their own
All In The Name of Love Religion Politics and Science.. and both the Democrats and Republicans and every other politics religion science all over the world exemplify how deadly the family is to their children and to their parents and to each other..
And that's why you can't say anything anybody because they live and die for their family but at least there are the examples and you'll see where I'm coming from if you stick around long enough and you live long enough.
Pack mentality is all about protecting your own group and fearing anyone on the outside. It also tends to inspire groupthink, where new ideas are rejected and individuals go against their values in order to align with the majority. Both of these things stifle creativity and innovation.
If you are a husband and your wife doesn't want to hang out with too many people don't force her. She probably is better off alone on her own.
Don't force your wives and girlfriends to be part of a group because women are mean to their own gender.. I don't care how much a woman says she loves her sisters because if her sister changes she won't love her sisters anymore..
soul sisters are conditional and you're not allowed to change
and just because women hang out together doesn't mean they didn't give up something to do that. They had to give up something in order to belong to a group
They pretty much they gave up their individuality.. immunologically women are like betta fish and they do fight to the death
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