I saw a couple in a group asking people to come into their house and babysit their two boys and they want someone CPR trained and references with some kind of credentials and they want them to come in on a Friday to Saturday and then periodically throughout the week. They want them to potty train their boys and take care of their dog. I feel bad for anyone who works for someone like this.
What this couple is asking is for someone to do the hard job like potty train two children as well as give up their Friday and Saturday nights and then these parents also bring in someone who probably doesn't realize that there's no guarantee these kids will survive and then somebody walks into a situation they can't control and the children don't survive. And so these parents set this person up to take the fall. Especially if they're taking care of these kids during key points in time such as during the day and in the evening.
But Jillian these parents need breaks. They need to have a day off or a night out.
In this world why would you leave your children with strangers and then ask them to potty train your two boys which leaves room for sexual abuse and second of all why would you walk into a family who you know nothing about and even if you did you don't know everything?
Even family isn't always trustworthy..
some family is but again when you're employing a stranger off the street even if they're vetted by some agency or other people both parties don't know what they're walking into.
It's dangerous for everybody..
died suddenly is on the rise and we have so many news reports of people who have abused elderly as well as animals and children and maybe they haven't been convicted of it because you don't know what happens behind closed doors and then s*** happens.
I wince now when I look at all these groups with public postings asking for a babysitter and it's a no win situation..
And if you're some "successful couple" with a labradoodle and two boys living in a 6,000 ft house looking for someone to come in on a Friday and a Saturday and periodically throughout the week you're not looking to raise your kids and take responsibility, in my opinion, you're looking for someone to blame if something doesn't go correctly and almost as if you're trying to escape responsibility which is no different than rich people euthanizing a perfectly healthy dog because they don't feel like taking care of it..
The yuppie world is pretty much going to the wayside.
Young urban professionals with 2.5 kids and a white picket fence is turned into died suddenly with trees crashing into their yard and branches jabbing through the bedroom windows and floods bringing up the sewer system with power outages and pestilence and died suddenly with courtroom cases.
This is not the time to bring a child into this world. This is the time to read the writing on the wall.
Just remember this young lady and you don't know what she did or did not do and you don't know what the parents did or did not do and there's so many holes in this story but the circumstances painted her to be a monster
and when you rely on circumstantial evidence this is what could happen to somebody who puts themselves in a position to be in charge of children.
It's too iffy to be in charge of any child nowadays unless you're the actual parent..
And I would never be alone with somebody else's child for any period of time because anything could happen and you would get the blame for it and if they painted you as a monster people will believe it.
People want to believe how horrible people are because they have seen too much b******* in the world and you're just another person who fit the b******* in the world.
And you'll be just another confirmation why you don't leave your children with strangers even if the person did nothing to them.
And when we have Hollywood stars and celebrities who escaped the justice system or was allowed to operate in full view of authority for more than 20 years and yet there is somebody who's been accused of child abuse and child endangerment and infanticide, people will transfer their feelings from those celebrities onto the current accused and that is a no way to win against public perception ..
not with the type of climate we've had to deal with esp with Diddy and Epstein Weinstein R Kelly Cosby and countless others.
people are ready for blood and they're out for blood
Regardless of the truth the public will believe whatever it is the system feeds them and the system would have taught people valuable lessons regardless of the truth.
You don't leave your children with strangers and you don't take care of other people's children.
I'm just glad I was a nanny in the 90s and not today.
Oh my God I'm so glad..
It might be easy money to take care of somebody else's kids but it could be a lifetime of consequences when you get caught up in something you can't control or explain
The system demonized coughing sneezing pooping, blowing nose, sweating and symptoms but normalized died suddenly, strokes and heart attacks and then blaming the "last thing" the person was "exposed" to.
Our children and adults are starving and over medicated and over reme/died and ARE over ELDER BERRY SYRUPPED TO DEATH. Which is why they are suffering.. they live with so many people and animals and must be medicated in order to "enjoy" them and then suffer more ... and the reason why they're suffering is because not only have they been over procreated upon but they are constantly surrounded by procreation through the microbial world.. they are in constant immunological competition with their caregivers as well as their classmates and peers
And on top of my last post, a child or baby who can't afford any more medication is given medication by a babysitter or a caregiver and the child dies because they can't handle any more medication
who do you think they're going to blame?
Allegedly, the kid was "perfectly healthy" before the parents left that child in somebody else's care and allegedly, the medication was not poisonous according to the parents.
That's a f***** up situation for any babysitter or caregiver of somebody else's child.
Everything has its breaking point and Tipping Point
Sokushinbutsu, was a form of meditation used between the 11th and 19th century by Japanese Buddhist monks, in order to mummify themselves alive they would slowly wean themselves off food and water, eventually starving themselves to death.
people do this now in the holistic allopathic world under politics, religion, science and family..
died suddenly is managing too much life (diluting their access to resources, therefore starvation) or managing not enough life aka starvation..
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